Since i was 14 years old, I have been a serial monogomist. I dated Joey, and then i dated Matt. During my break ups with Matt, i dated Ryan and David. Then i went to college. I dated Brian for two and a half years. During the last 6 months of said relationship, i had guys on the side (yes i know...totally shady...but i was 20!). Right after Brian and i broke up, I started dating Brett. We dated for a year and a half. Since we've broken up, I haven't really had a long term relationship. In the last year and a half since we broke up, i have only spent six months of that dating someone. Three different guys no less. I spent 2 months with each of them. So i think it is safe to say I am no longer a serial monogomist. YEAH!!! So what does that make me now? A serial dater? A serial short term dater? A regular human being?
posted by Audra @ 8:05 PM
5 Comments:
Human. You seem to be rushing alot. Trying to find some guy or trying to fit a guy into your ideal.
Relax. Breathe and accept life.
Time is a predator, always stalking us. But it doesnt mean that the predator cant be your friend for awhile on lifes journey.
Dont rush.
Billy
Not rushing was exactly what I thought i was doing now that I've broken the vicious cycle of serial monogomy.
True but now you seem to be on a cycle of wanting a long term guy. Grading them even.
Billy
Grading is purely for entertainment purposes. And any woman who tells you she doesn't grade men mentally is a liar. I'm just writing it out to amuse myself and anyone else who reads my blog. I also believe that in a previous blog i specifically stated that i wasn't looking for a long term relationship (hence why it's okay to date the 44 year old). But...even if i were looking to have a long term relationship...i don't consider that a bad thing. I eventually want to get married, and taking steps to gain the things i want in my life i do not consider to be bad.
I think you are normal, and monogamy is the natural state of being for female humans. :-)
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