Analysis of date with the boyscout


Name of Date: Boy Scout
Location of date: Movie Theater and Pizza Hut
Date grade: C
Date bio: 32 yr old male from Chicago, IL. Works for the Boy Scouts of America and raises money for them. Very outgoing and in your face. Son of a woman i go to church with.

Details:

Quickly how we met: after church i was hanging out, he joined the group i was in and we started talking. He asked me out, i said okay. He came to pick me up on Sunday afternoon, and he brought with him a beautiful pink rose. He made sure to open all the doors for me, and was a perfect gentleman. We went and saw Cars, and then walked around the outdoor mall (in the rain) and talked for a while. Overall, nice conversation, and he seemed very interested in what i had to say. He asked a lot of questions, which i find unusual, but refreshing. He asked if i would go to lunch with him the next day (he was leaving for chicago that day) so i agreed. Lunch was nice, and that's when i discovered he was 32. I had thought he was 28, 29 at the oldest. He is a nice guy, but i wasn't feeling him romantically all that much, and then the age kinda pushed me over the edge. Although 32 is not by any means old it's pushing the age envelope. Also, it means he is probably more in a position to want a serious relationship and what not. And if he's not...then that's a sign that he has commitment phobia.

Conclusion:

I imagine that when he comes to visit his family we may hang out. But i don't forsee any relationship, if for nothing else that i don't want a relationship with anyone, period. But even if i were looking for a serious relationship...he's a little older than i'm looking for. I'm not being too picky, i'm just thinking, if things worked out great...by the time i was ready to have kids...he'd be almost 40. He gets a C because of his age, his proximity, and my inability to "get into" any guy i've met in the last 6 months. Although this last reason is not his fault...it's easier to penalize his grade than penalize myself.