I have been studying chemistry now for six years. I discovered my love of chemistry eight years ago. Overall...i would say chemistry has been a very major part of my life for quite some time now. And yet...the more i learn about chemistry...the less i know about chemistry of the personal kind. How exactly does that work?
2H2 + O2 ---> 2H2O
That's not hard! Chemistry of elements always makes sense. It's logical, consistent, and always there. Why does that not work with people? There could be a good looking guy who shares some of my interests...2H2 + O2, but i get no water! Nothing...not even a drop. Not one single molecule. However...i can meet a moderately attractive guy that i have nothing in common with...and BAM it's a god damn waterfall!
Would someone please explain to me the chemistry of people? It's obvious that i am lacking in that department.
posted by Audra @ 6:19 PM
6 Comments:
It's not really chemistry, it's electrical engineering. Human brains work through all these neurons firing tiny electrical charges in that pretty little noggin of yours. Unfortunately, people contain a lot of water, so when your brains get all worked up over someone, it's kind of like dropping a hair dryer in the tub - things start short circuiting and your brain gets all weird.
So, don't blame chemists, blame whatever electrician who decided running live wires through a wet wall was a good idea.
Finding someone you have everything in common with takes away from the newness that each relationship needs.
I also think a relationship needs somekind of alpha person in it. In your case any man will be below you in many aspects of life. You will go after a guy who is attractive and in someway fits some idea of what a man is.
Otyherwise i dont see you with a like minded guy because you dont want to date or be with another you. While fun and great you need something more simple in your complicated life. Having 2 people with complicated lives doesnt allow people to get to the basic core shit of normal life.
You probably want to be reminded of simplicty instead of the chaos.
Thus while most people will have a laundry list of wants from a mate you might narrow it down to very simple ones because you dont need much.
Billy
I hope that made some sense
I have no idea what i'm looking for in a potential partner, so i guess it doesn't get any less complicated than that. :-) However...i definitely like Hardy's theory. I've never been good with electricity or circuits...so that explains a lot.
How about you go with someone that is crazy for you and you kinda dig. Not many people find their soulmate and you shouldnt go out there looking not that i think you are anyway.
You are a career woman and will be on the move alot. You will need to find a portable guy unless you want to stay in the Fort Wayne area.
I dont really see you as settling in one area for awhile. And gun boy doesnt seem like he would be the type to follow you.
billy
just keep yourself GROUNDED!!! you know what i'm talking about.
c'est moi, the worst french speaker in the history of the world. damn you mr. murphy.
ground wires are good wires.
Chemistry... Giggle. I like how Hardy explains that you may be looking for someone less like you. I know that I do not like the idea of dating someone like me...
I think there is something missing from your equation, tho. 2H2 + O2 + energy = 2H20 + energy. But you are the chemist.
I thought attraction was a lot in the nose. The male and female emit natural pheremones, and if his pheremones and her pheremones work together, BAM. I think this is into the realm of molecular biology now. :-)
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