Before I start my post, I'd like to say thanks to Billy for being my personal cheerleader for these last couple of days. :-)
I had a wonderful weekend of girliness involving therapuetic shopping. I went with the plan to buy brown boots, and brown dress pants and ended up buying two sweaters (turquois and red), a black purse, and pink tennis shoes (which i must say are super cute). But it was good to buy things that I didn't plan on buying. However...i really do need the boots and pants. I've gone this long without them though. Also this weekend, we discussed thoroughly why I have a fear of commitment. I have three reasons.
1. I am afraid of getting hurt, but who isn't?
2. I am afraid that someone will try to change me.
3. I am afraid that a man is going to try and interfere with my career goals.
It has been decided that reason number 3 is the biggest reason. In response to this newly realized problem, I'm just gonna wing dating. If some cute guy asks me out, I won't say no. But i'm not going to actively pursue any man, nor will I go out of my way to find a date. No time limits or constraints because honestly it may be best for me if i don't date. I'm not sure what i'm going to be doing in two years, and I imagine that makes it difficult for any man to feel secure with me...much less me feel secure to start something.
So...we'll just see how this goes. And i'm sure that soon i'll be swooning under the cheesy words of some Rico Suave.
posted by Audra @ 8:45 PM
2 Comments:
You are among the next generation of women who want to go places in life and have a career yet you are also dealing with men who are still a decade behind when it comes to dealing with women like you.
Guys tend to believe and rightly so in most cases that they have to be the bread winners and they are the focus of the relationship long term. But time are changing and thats not the case. It doesnt help that society puts them in that position but its their own fault for listening to society.
Im going for another degree myself that will make me portable around the country and working for Marriott i can move around with them if i so desired. I have no ties to any one area and no need to worry about what others think of me. If a woman makes more money fine. If her career is what makes the world go round then thats fine too.
The right guy will realize that what you have inside is greater than what most people can ever hope to have. He will have a woman who is smart, sexy, caring and fun. All he has to do is join you on the your ride in life.
I think that you are worth breaking with societal norms.
lol that was me William/billy/chucklesmcnutt
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